Is it that easy to blatantly lie?
Is it that easy to blatantly lie?
The lie is something many detest and shrivel away when someone lies especially blatantly. At times it can become an awkward moment for all.
Have you been in space where someone has lied to you?
How did you react to this?
Lies is something many stories have been written and there are proverbs about it. Nevertheless many move towards and lean towards lies and find it pretty easy to lie.
What makes one do it so easily ?
There can be many reasons before we move ahead let us see the various forms of lies.
There are four types of lie that is commonly known :-
- Grey
- White
- Black
- Red
these can be characterized by naming them with four colours.
White lie
A lie that is not very harmful or serious, especially if one that you tell because the truth would hurt somebody. Even when we lose out significantly, there is arguably always some benefit. For example, Telling your mother that her meatloaf is delicious when you really hate the meatloaf or telling your friend that she doesn’t look fat in her dress when she asks because you don’t want to tell her that she’s gained a lot of weight and looks heavy.
Gray lie
Gray lie. Most of the lies we tell are grey lies. They are partly to help others and partly to help ourselves. … For example you can lie to help a friend out of trouble but then gain the reciprocal benefit of them lying for you while those they have harmed in some way lose out.
Black Lie
Black lies, or telling a lie to gain a personal benefit, are universally condemned. … However, a large difference exists between black lies and white lies: With black lies, the one lying tries to gain something at the cost of the lied to. In other words, the deceiver exploits the deceived out of self-interest.
Red Lie
A red lie is reportedly about “spite and revenge.” These lies are “driven by the motive to harm others” even when it produces destructive expense to self and situation.
No, it is not that I want to talk about the various types of lies but to make one understand that no matter what, but the word when we lie we are putting ourselves in a spot of being lied to at one point or the other. No matter if it is a white lie or a black lie the point is a lie is a lie.
When we go about blatantly lying we are with our own hands jeopardizing our relationship for no actual reason or purpose. The entire consequence of this is somethings which can never be undone or rectified.
When you get used to lying and you keep lying the people around you start looking at you with skepticism and would never take you seriously with anything you say or do. No matter how difficult or awkward the situation is it’s always good to speak up and speak the truth for your own benefit. When you lie you may be able to escape for the moment but it could come back to haunt you later.
Why would one lie?
There can be many reasons as to why one person moves towards lying.
- Fear of being caught for something which they are ashamed off.
- Not ready to accept certain things that are happened in their life and they choose to be oblivious to them in the eyes of the world.
- Lacking confidence or due to certain past circumstances.
- Repeated failures, or major challenges or blocks pertaining to achieving certain things.
- Fear of losing the project or a person.
- Fear of rejection.
- Humiliation and being targeted.
- Social norms and conditioning.
- Out of pressure and unable to meet targets or goals.
- Sitting in denial and refusing to acknowledge facts.
Reasons can be plenty but one needs to know no matter how tough or difficult it’s okay to accept a failure. There is nothing wrong if you are unable to do something or meet an expectation.
What happens when the other person catches you lying?
- The first aspect which leaves is trust, without a blink of an eye it is out of the window. Once trust is broken it is very difficult to build it back no matter what it will always be questioned.
- The relationship will slag or slow down, once there is a lie be it any kind no one would wish to approach you to get things done or even looked into. As you have not spoken up or voiced the facts.
- The confidence level will also come down and you would never be taken at face value no matter what.
- The foundation of the relationship can also get shaky and unstable.
- At times of there is a repetition of lies the relationship can come to an end as there is no meaning in living with lies or building a life with lies.
- Any relationship built on lies or trying to function on lies will not be a bed of roses for sure as the hiccups will be aplenty and chaos would be the order of the day.
So without trying to justify your lies or trying to victimise yourself look at being honest, it’s understandable truth is always bitter and lies are very sweet. But when is ready to taste the bitterness of truth lies will soon be oblivious.
Loathing is egocentric so better to let go of the ego and look it being loving is enthusiastic.. a beautiful way to express the LIE
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