IS IT IMPORTANT TO HOLD ONTO TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS?
Time and again we come to this point of being put in the spot of being hurt or let down. We wonder what in us gets us to be in situations where we get exposed to situations and circumstances even if we wish to avoid it or stay away from such situations.
Often one may wonder what all are we to keep away and how much are we working on ourselves are we ever ready to actually look at why and what in us allows us to get hurt or into being vulnerable to toxic relationships. One may ask what all can I be cautious of and move away from?
Well, the answer is simple, we allow ourselves to get hurt when we are opening ourselves to the point of giving our power to others and we don’t let ourselves heal. Nor do we let go we just keep operating from a point of wounding and hurt. Is this really going to help us to move forward?
It will only help us to drown in self-pity and we may not be able to slip out of the web that can be vicious. This can bring about extreme pain and discomfort to our bodies.
A common question we often ask ourselves is why do we allow ourselves into toxic relationships?
What can the reasons be that we get ourselves into such situations?
>We give power to the other person may be due to various reasons we allow ourselves to be in a spot where we are unable to turn back or let go. We feel like we have reached a point of compromise and that makes us feel very uncomfortable. Now, do we need to be in this state of being in a toxic situation?
No,
It is our free will, we need to be cautious and use the free will the rightful way. Life can flow smoothly when we actually allow ourselves to evolve and move forward.
>We keep reliving the toxic relationships with our thoughts and talks. This would only feed the unwanted toxins into the already toxic relationship. When this happens it would start to breed the toxins into your environment which would bring about major issues. This would only help in weave the knots which would be difficult to release.
>We hold onto the past and not ready to let go when this sets on, no matter what we say or do we will keep going back into the toxic environment and reliving the pain or suffering. We may have fear to let go or it’s easy to be in a familiar space of pain which becomes kind of a comfort to us.
>Nursing of ego and trying to heal the wound of ego by working towards getting acceptance or being acknowledged with the person who is putting us through the environment of toxicity.
>Unsure of the right decisions and fear of rejection would keep us going trying to hold
to hold onto the severed ties to just know it’s familiar ground and you know your way around.
>The fear of the unknown can get us edgy and this can put us in reverse gear and push us down the slope as we don’t want to push ourselves out of the comfort zone and would rather slide in and live the life as it is without any question and keep cribbing and living the life.
>Fear of communication can be another important aspect as there can be fights or differences and that can actually push you out of your comfort zone. This may be very difficult for some as they would rather just be silent than open and speak up to the other person.
>Owning up to the situation or issue, we never want to own up to any issue or situation. We will look at ways where we are being victimized or cornered but owning up and saying listen I don’t want to be treated like this. Maybe I can manage myself it’s okay. I am equally responsible for being in this situation.
These things and many more facts can actually keep us in a toxic relationship we just don’t know what to do. The one feeling that one will have is if I step out or leave what will the society say? Or on those similar lines…!!
Will the same people commenting help you out of the toxic situation or environment??
No
So then why would one even think about this issue? If one is unhappy or feeling rejected. Where there self-respect and self-esteem are being questioned. Then it’s obvious that you are not meant to be in this is space.
Of course, the choice is yours finally, do you wish to take action on this. Instead of cribbing and cringing one should be able to actually move on accepting the situation and face the facts of life as each situation bring about an important lesson for us.
When one feels stuck in a toxic environment the choice lies within the person whether they wish to step out or stay in.
Each situation and issue bring about super experiences the tougher the experience the lessons are even more powerful.
Reach out to Samskara Healing if you have an issue or trouble to let go for guidance, support, or a session.
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