DO I NEED TO COMPROMISE IN LIFE
Well, the choice is for each person and they can choose what they feel is comfortable for them. Compromise is an important tool for one to have a wonderful and healthy relationship.
No matter what, one can get into awkward moments and irritability with someone. As there is are so many factors at play. The list can go on from expectations to dislike. But the point remains,
Do I really want to compromise?
We can be forced into situations or marriages, then the expectations are high especially thanks to some wonderful movies that we see. As these bring about that into us and we expect similar things in our life. When our expectations don’t get met disappointments set in quickly and instead of trying to work on the issue. One would get into the path of the blame game. Being totally unaware that three fingers are pointing back at you.
If someone is not perfect, well time to look at the mirror are you perfect?
No way!!
No one is perfect!!
The faults are many and if we wish to pick on faults the list can be endless. Whereas if we wish to live with the flaws, the flaws can actually bring about a beautiful intricate work as a delicate tapestry. (I am not talking about an abusive relationship here.)
Instead, of jumping into commitments, one should see if there is compatibility. If there is no compatibility then there is no use of even going into that relationship. Sometimes people are in certain connections for favors and requirements. ( Here nor I am not talking about those kinds of relationships.)
The relationship wherein we build on trust, expectations and love…,
>Family
>Friends
>Spouses
As children, we see our parents and grandparents and build an ideal relationship image in our minds. No matter what kind of relationship, we allow our perceptions to work according to that.
As I always state no ideas of marriage or a relationship is alike. One has
>Dreams
>Expectations
>Perceptions
>Beliefs
>Values
These could at times bring about a bitter disappointment if we are not ready to allow ourselves to be open for any kind of flaws. Some of these can actually become
major blocks for us.
Any relationship is it with a friend or a spouse there has to be a give and take. We cannot build a relationship with expectations that the foundation is always weak and unstable. The reason being when expectations did not meet the relationship gets unstable and at times even break.
Everyone loves to be pampered, cared for, and accepted for who they are. If you are not ready to accept the individual or person for he/she is there comes the first step for instability in the relationship. Through this one fact of acceptance, a vicious web of blame game can be weaved.
This is dangerous as one can actually get into the flow of only looking at self for what they are perceiving. Believing that they are actually speaking the truth and being u realistic about the facts.
Don’t try to change people for your likes, try to love them for who they are…!!
Before committing into a relationship think and evaluate if that’s what you want…
Love people for who they are and not to who you are trying to make them…
Reach out to Samskara Healing if you have an issue or trouble to let go for guidance, support or a session.
🌺Palash 🌺
Spiritual Healer @samskarahealing
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