HOW CAN WE HAVE SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT ACCEPT US?
Do we really want to have someone in our space who treats us as non-existent?
No way !!!
Can we change this person’s thought process towards you ?
Then what is one doing trying to convince or trying to get acknowledged??
It takes two hands to clap or even to make things move. When one is not responding or being open to even you being around it’s then time to move on. There can be various reasons for this nevertheless would one want to actually be part of playing the victim.
Trying to seek sympathy and trying to make them acknowledge can be actually wasteful and also will bring down your self-confidence and self-love drastically.
On the journey you choose if someone does not wish to acknowledge your existence then it’s their baggage and their journey. By wasting time and getting stuck in the vicious web of trying to gain love is really not going to get you anywhere.
There is a point of trying to work things out for the better and see how to go about it. No one can take drastic steps the first time, but when it’s repetitive then it’s time to actually think…!!!
Do I really want this in my space?
Yes / No / not sure
If your answer is yes, allow yourself to be as you have threshold and space that is something that you can withstand for some time. So don’t stress and there is no need to allow yourself to overthink. Nevertheless, allow yourself to set boundaries and learn to hold onto your self-respect.
Whereas if it’s no, it’s time to move ahead without any questions and also set boundaries where these things don’t really bother you anymore. By spacing things out and releasing expectations we can let go of certain relationships that hold no meaning to you.
When unsure best is to just be mindful and watchful of your thoughts and your reactions to certain situations where you feel you are not being welcomed or wanted. As you keep a tab of your thoughts one will eventually know if you are comfortable or not and you can take your step accordingly.
Once a decision is taken on this the next step is
What are the triggers for you?
By working on those will help one to start pulling the power back and setting strong boundaries that no matter what the point of getting hurt or let down won’t be there. As you understand the importance and working on self and setting strong boundaries and realigning the belief system accordingly.
When time and again you get subjected to the same situation and patterns are forming. Please take a moment to step back and see which are your weak areas. There is no use going critical on self and working on things bitterly. Try to be patient and loving and understand why certain things are happening.
Through this whole process, it’s okay to be upset and get hurt after all we are human with emotions. So allow the feeling to be there. Experience it, see the lessons it’s bringing to you, and the importance of the same. Thereafter depending on how deep the pain or point of being upset is work from there to reset and realign yourself and be clear as you set boundaries.
Ok the journey of your life, one can meet many different kinds of people some come due to soul contract and some are here for just a small season due to karmic relationships. Allow the lessons to come, thank them no matter how painful the lessons have been. As they have given your soul learning and respect that. Each bitter experience is wonderful learning at the level of the soul.
Do I really want someone in my space who really doesn’t acknowledge me ??
I think now is the time to think and start letting go of all those severed ties and relationships which really hold no value or essence for you.
Respect and Acknowledgement are very much needed as these are tonic and grease for the harmony wheels of life to be in alignment.
Forgiveness and Gratitude take us one a stupendous journey of rediscovering oneself all over again.
Get in touch with Samskara Healing incase you feel you need to clarify or get guidance for an issue or for a support session.
🌺Palash 🌺
Spiritual Healer @samskarahealing
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