THE TRICK OF BALANCING RELATIONSHIPS!
Often, we get caught in situations and circumstances wherein we are unable to be open or help someone due to our own reasons and at times we sense that we are not welcomed or not needed to be there for whatever the situation is.
Then comes the point of trying to be diplomatic to make sure no one is hurt and trying to be amicable about the whole thing. At times trying to make things look peaceful or working on it in such a way can actually make things worsen or go the wrong way.
When one feels unwelcome or unwanted and trying to still be courteous as they value relationships and respect each and everyone around can get a bit tricky and complicated for the one trying to balance this out.
Now whether it’s good or not really depends on what one perceives and the belief system of how much is enough for a person in their space. This only time and situations can bring it forward and also test one out.
By trying to be nice or working things out and in the bargain being put in an awkward place is going to be painful and the entire experience can leave. Bitter experience in one’s mouth as we are witnessing one’s behavior and indifference.
When and why do we bring ourselves into such situations wherein we are trying to balance the relationship out?
It’s something we ask ourselves and never have an answer for the same as we are unaware that we are bringing about an imbalance with our own beliefs and acts.
I am sure you must be thinking really How ?
Initially, we give 100% and also try to work things out by being very patient and loving. Eventually, there comes the point where we reach the threshold of enough I can’t take this anymore or maybe the expectations of I did this and I expect this has not been met.
Though we create this discord we are pretty oblivious to the fact and go about finding faults.
As I have always stated and known by all we need two hands to clap. When there is an imbalance and we trying to balance it due to the need to hold onto a relationship especially when there is a connection in the relationship. It becomes very difficult.
Now if the other person has always been open and communicative it gets more complicated or we may dislike certain statements that have been said which makes it even more difficult for one to accept and move on. Nevertheless, we are equally responsible for reaching this state of bitterness in any relationship.
How to weigh your relationship and how to balance it ?
- Weigh the pros and cons of holding on or letting go. See what is it that you want not what others want or need. It is your choice as you are the one in the situation.
- Pick your battles you can’t keep fighting or go about lashing out at everyone and anyone.
- Introspect your situation as to where you stand and how do you wish to proceed without being hurt or humiliated.
- Reflect on the past and work on the various energy blocks created due to certain statements being said to you or you have stated out of pain or anger.
- Work on your boundaries and also restructure your space and set boundaries accordingly.
- Learn to express your feelings in a diplomatic way and at times it best not comment or say certain things as it may be showcased on you as you are being negative or vicious.
- Avoid unwanted blame games and accusations as both won’t be fruitful or bring any change to the situation.
- Forgive and accept the person to who they are than trying to find faults and focusing on it.
- Hold gratitude for the wonderful lessons that have come your way and bless them for bringing it to you. It is important to learn so the best is to accept it.
- Let go happily for your own inner peace and happiness and move forward knowing that you have made peace for your own journey and that means something to you.
When we understand these simple steps it makes it easy for us to balance the relationship and make life easy for us to know and understand on how to go about giving space and keeping boundaries.
Faults is something everyone have look out for the good points.
To balance a healthy relationship one needs to have a balanced emotional mindset.
Reach out to Samskara Healing if you have an issue or trouble to let go for guidance, support or a session.
🌺Palash 🌺
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