A Journey which can be lonely..!!
We go through various twists and turns and often come across patches that are lonely and crazy. We just have no idea what got us into this lonely path and what made us even continue on this path.
Did we choose to walk this lonely path?
Yes!
Is there an option?
Yes, of course, there is an option, but it is what we choose due to situations and past experiences.
As I stated the choices lie within us and we go about searching for the options outside us. There are just no alternatives to seeking the rightful directions which are genuinely lying within our own space. No one will know what’s right for us but our intuitions and inner gut instincts.
Due to various reasons we just fail to see the truth and get caught in the turmoil of denial and victimize ourselves for no real help or consequence. The triggers could be due to experiences that have left a sour taste in our mouth.
The path gets lonely or the lonely path whatever you choose. The path that gets lonely, will be the one with everyone there and yet having no one for you. Whereas the lonely path is a path chosen by you to learn some important lessons as you journey by yourself with no one with you. There is a clear demarcation of who is responsible for our acts and choices of life. When we are on a lonely path one goes through a myriad flow of emotions.
The natural outcome of loneliness is depression and suffering. Now there are two ways to look towards the paths. When we choose to walk the path alone and are very happy with the outcome and ready to move on as things fall in place accordingly and also happy about the same. That’s one choice and when you are walking with others and feeling unwanted or that you wish to move away. That’s the other path which you have chosen and now regretting it.
Sometimes you dont get to choose. As it is the situation and could consequences that lead us to be on this path with everyone being there and yet feeling lonely. As you are unable to communicate or even express yourself what you are feeling.
Loneliness be it either way is not something anyone wishes to thread on. It gets difficult and once you slip into a depression there is no way out. As the initial part of denial can play a major role and could lead one to deeper depression. A person feeling lonely wishes for company and contact with other fellow humans. But is unable to make a contact with them. Due to what they’re going through and experiencing.
Loneliness as so many misconceptions and misleading ideas and also many think it’s a social taboo to seek help or get guidance for being in a situation wherein you feel lonely. Many of us go through different phases of life and experience the feeling of loneliness. Some are strong-willed and swim out if that whirlpool quickly and don’t get stuck. Whereas some get caught and have a major block in asking for help.
Many times, you can be with a group of people and still feel lonely. There is the feeling of being left out or feeling unwanted which goes deep within. Nevertheless, if you wish to help yourself to get out of this here are some simple tips.
- Start with small talks which are comfortable for you.
- Try to hand out with like-minded people or people who have similar interests.
- Get active and be more interactive though you need to work on it.
- Keep a journal and express yourself.
- If nothing is working out a plan on doing things by yourself don’t let anything slow you.
- Seek a support system or a group.
- Plan on doing some volunteering.
- Work on your communication skills.
- Address your fear and release them.
So to be lonely or to walk lonely path options lie within us. So instead of cribbing or nagging that things aren’t going right. The decisions are to be done with understanding and knowing that you are not wrong.
Loneliness is the path, not a destination so you have a choice of picking your paths.
Loneliness is not an illness that can’t be treated it’s about understanding why you are feeling lonely.
Get in touch with Samskara Healing in case you feel you need to clarify or get guidance for an issue or a support session.
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