Can we accept the challenges that come in our way?
Challenges is something all of us have with our day to day life. These challenges can come up in three ways
- Self inflicted challenges
- External stimulated challenges
- Self as well as external stimulated challenges
What are challenges?
To confront or defy boldly is one kind of challenge. The other being to dare he/ she challenged his/ her critics to prove his guilt. This is also another meaning that is to call out for a duel or combat. Maybe even Challenging his/ her rival to a duel.
Here we are looking at the challenges that we can call as obstacles or blocks which makes us look helpless or need to fight our way through for mere existence. The path is not easy as many such challenges keep coming up and there is absolutely no place to hide or run from.
Life gives us beautiful challenges as these challenges become the foundation for excellent learning and becoming stronger on our paths as we journey on to our destination. The point comes when we get frustrated with certain challenges and are ready to give up or wish to exit that path and start looking for guidance and support.
What one needs to know is no one can help you on your path. As everyone are just witness to what you are going through as they have their own challenges and troubles.
The tougher the challenges the tougher you become and the stronger your soul evolves.
As the say goes of life throws lemons at you make lemonade and sip on it rather than cribbing about the challenges. The choice always lies with us
What do we wish to do?
- Do you wish to back out?
- Are you accepting failures
- Are you ready to face the challenges and move on?
- What kind of fear is stoping you?
The various emotions we face becomes our biggest triggers. These emotions can be be due to some past experiences or anticipation of something we are unfamiliar of. No matter what due to our thoughts and perceptions we start to create unwanted blocks on our path which could become challenges for us.
At times out of our belief patterns and mindset, we go about creating unwarranted d challenges in our life. As we are working on certain perceived notions and ideologies. These can get to be bigger and tougher challenges.
What can we do if we are constantly faced with challenges on our course of actions?
It’s time to change your beliefs and look at ways to overcome these challenges. The tougher the challenges the harder is the lesson to be learnt. So it’s completely up to us are we ready to learn to the lessons and overcome the challenges that’s coming our way.
Through the course giving up cause of these challenges should never be considered as it is a clear sign of showing that we are unable to face the challenges. We back off from one challenge and we get another challenge in the next course we take. No matter what or where one can run the challenges are sure to be there. It’s completely up to the person either face them without fears or seek help to overcome these challenges.
How can we overcome?
- Take time to review the situation and see where all these challenges are coming up.
- Seek opinions from others who have faced similar challenges and how they have gotten out of it.
- Plan/ strategize on how you wish to proceed as you move ahead through this challenge.
- Don’t even try to get into blame game or the point of I told you so. No one is interested or keen on listening to your stories.
- Always keep communication open and be reciprocative towards feedback and guidance.
- Respect the other person who is actually the one from who you have the challenges . He/ she are important teachers playing a vital role in bringing beautiful lessons to us.
- Taking things for granted is not advisable, or taking things at face value is never a good thing.
- No matter how tough the challenge is things may not move but hold gratitude in your heart and keep that going.
- Know and remember that through every dark tunnel there is light. So journey with that confidence.
- It’s good to have negotiating skills and use those to help yourself to get out of these challenges.
C- Cherish
H- Happily
A- All
L- Lessons
L- Lovingly
E- Engaging
N – Nectar
G-Gratitude
E- Encouragement
Cherish happily all lessons lovingly engaging with nectar of gratitude and encouragement.
When we look at challenges with this thought process these challenges becomes easy and one can overcome them with ease and grace taking in the beautiful lessons with gratitude. No matter how many times one may decide to overcome challenges the journey can break a person down. The only thing that keeps one going is the will which has the strength to overcome every challenge that comes up.
Get in touch with Samskara Healing, if you are looking for a mentor or you need a session of healing and help remove blocks feel free to reach out and book a consultation.
Palash
In Gratitude to Divine
Spiritual Healer
Shaman
Reiki Grandmaster
Samskara Healing
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