Can we truly control an outcome?
Can we truly control an outcome?
Trying to control the flow of events or situation or circumstance is something common amongst us. Keeping in mind the mind of dreams and visions each one carries their wish to live and have those dreams to come alive. These dreams may be realistic at times and unrealistic at certain times nevertheless dreams are meant to be dreamt.
Dreaming is not bad but helps one bring a kind of hope and desire to live a life and have a purpose to move towards gaining and achieving those goals in life. The bigger we dream the tougher is the goal and the tougher the path towards the goal. This could bring a lot of challenges, frustration at times fatigue as one faces the various hurdles or challenges on the path.
When certain dreams are not fulfilled as adults we tend to pass these dreams onto our children or the younger generation and try to live our dreams through them. This is the wrong thing to be doing as each soul has their dreams and visions to be living and experiencing. In the process of trying to live a dream through our younger generation, we tend to be controlling beyond necessity.
Trying to control someone or something can take a nasty turn when it is not truly meant to be. Through the process of manipulation if one tries to control and have things happening for their convenience this could bring a major block or challenge into a person’s life. This kind of situation could have an effect of rebound and things can go out of control beyond one’s imagination.
The simple and the most practical reason for this is life is meant to flow. Each person has their destination to watch and witness and life needs to flow bringing in the required experience and allowing them to witness which would bring the needful learning to them. Trying to stop them from experiencing or witnessing just out of our own selfish needs would bring mayhem of events that could become pretty bitter for one and all.
An important question which everyone can ask would be is it wrong to live a dream?
No, it is not wrong to live your dream, but trying to live your dreams through someone else and in the process of trying to control and holding on to certain situations is truly not meant to be. The quicker this is understood it would help define and understand relationships and bring a better meaning into everything that we have.
Tips on how not to control an outcome!
1. Understanding that each one has their journey I need to live and witness what they truly meant to witness would bring the first step to knowing the importance of not controlling and outcome.
2. Forcing your opinions and your perceptions onto others without understanding what the other person is thinking or planning to do is truly not the right way to move forward. It is always good to understand and know why certain things are done and under what explanation.
3. Your thoughts, opinions and beliefs will truly hold no importance to anyone else. This is something you should understand, acknowledge and also respect. The quicker this understanding sets in the better it is for one to maintain healthy relationships.
4. The universes law of having this life in a steady flow without trying to stop it would help the life to move without having stagnation. This would help everyone to live their life with peace happiness and harmony bringing a beautiful balance and meaning to existence.
5. Taking time to introspect and understand what exactly has surpassed and where could you be wrong in the process is very important before building your thoughts or having your actions or reactions to any situations. At times your reactions could actually bring bitterness in to what ever is unfolding.
6. Keep the communication strong and clear be vocal with your thoughts and opinions at the same time, being willing to listen to the other person’s thoughts and opinions would help you understand where exactly where you stand with your dreams and your visions and whether you would be truly able to control an outcome.
7. Determine and understand what you can control and know your thoughts and have a contingency plan for your dreams. Focus on what you can have and what you may be able to have in life.
8. Accept the facts and acknowledge the way things are flowing. It’s good to know when to step back and how to gracefully move out of something that is truly not meant for you.
9. Working on a journal and releasing certain fears and stress is a good thing to be doing. Carrying too much of this can only trigger unwanted reactions in you which you would rather not have in the long run.
10. Each one no matter who has their purpose and reason of existence let them live it out they wish. As that’s what is best for them.
Gracefully stepping aside and not trying to control the turn of events is a great way to move ahead.
Trying to control certain outcomes is not in anyone’s hands as each one has their journey to live and experience.
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