Getting caught in the Drama
It’s the one thing that we all easily do is getting caught in the drama and believing that it’s the only way to go ahead and there is no way out for us. Well getting caught in the drama is a choice each one takes and wishes to live their story to the hilt too.
Is it necessary to live in the drama??
No, not at all, the point is yes everyone does go through certain situations which puts a big net of illusion. The chaos and confusion that comes along with it are so messy that it’s very easy to get dragged into the drama.
When stuck in the drama it can make one become more vicious and miserable and lash out at anything and everything because you are believing that there is no way out and you have to go through the pain and suffering. Well, there is a simple explanation for this that is when you understand that it’s not about getting into the drama but allowing yourself to experience and learn.
This simple understanding will help you to completely step aside and just be a witness to the whole lesson of learning to unfold for you. The minute we step away and accept the facts and let things be life shows us the importance of becoming a “ WITNESS” to our own story of life.
The decisions to be made also won’t be difficult cause you are operating from a point of being neutral and accepting the other person’s faults and mistakes without being judgemental or over-reacting to turn off events.
The obvious question is
How can I accept or let go of the other person’s fault or mistakes?
Naturally, it’s not easy and if takes time to even come to terms with the whole drama unfolding. Each person goes through their fair share of suffering before coming to the point of acceptance and letting go. It cannot happen overnight and it takes time to even step out of the comfort zone of letting things be and moving on.
Whilst getting caught in the drama and believing that this is it and you have to go through the whole process with a lot of churning of questions which may not have answers.
Questions like
- Why me?
- What have I done?
- How can I let go?
- Where should I go?
- Who is there for me?
- Which part of me attracts these things to me?
These questions you can keep asking and never get answers for these. Reasons being that the answers also lie within you and you need to be silent and go into a space of listening to the inner voice guiding you and telling you what exactly is to be done.
The normal reactions we all have us to plunge right into the centre seat of the drama and let the drama unfold around us. We are so caught up that it’s pretty natural to be unaware when we slip into denial. Through this process when things start slowing down and not going as per our wish we start reacting and the unhappiness seeps through our whole being.
It’s easier said than done when one says step out of the drama and let things happen. It’s not easy and no one looks towards stepping away. At times they may wonder how can I step away? I need to take control of the situation. Well, you can’t that’s why this whole drama is happening. Certain patterns start to repeat as drama and can cause havoc in ones life when they don’t allow the lessons to be accepted or acknowledge the importance of what’s happening.
No doubt it takes time and please take your time to go through and accept your thoughts and beliefs as it’s something hard to digest in life. But with time when you start accepting you will notice that everything is falling in place and you are comfortable with things happening no matter how tough it can get.
These dramas that unfold are truly unfolding for our own soul’s journey and purpose so allow things to unfold naturally and don’t try to dwindle or mess with things for your own selfish needs. The quicker one is on their feet the quicker is the learnings of life. No matter how many times I state this it keeps coming back with reinforcements and I understand why.
As we go about our day to day life we always are curious as to what needs to be done and how to get things done as we move ahead.
How do we learn to step away and not get caught in the drama?
- Know that everyone have a story and life to live so each one will go through certain events for a reason and a season.
- The challenges which can lead us into that drama are tough teachers bringing beautiful lessons to teach us how to face and learn the importance of your soul journey in your life.
- Introspect my all-time favourite, the time spent in Introspection is never a wasted time but well used time and much needed to understand how to proceed.
- Let go when not in control or you can’t control that’s cause you are not in alignment with the universe and you need to allow yourself to fall into synchronization to have things flow as per plan.
- Practice having gratitude for everything that happens for you no matter how small it can be. The more gratitude you have the more things start happening for you.
- Acceptance of the whole drama and stepping out of it to have a bird’s eye view is much needed and when done with integrity you will know when you are wrong and when to step away from certain things.
- Surrender when things are not going as per your wish, the universe is always listening to you and will step in to take control instantly. Things start to happen for your highest good.
- Live in the present rather than in the past or the future. Like the past, nothing can be undone but the lessons learnt and future is not known. The present is all that one knows and living in the present helps one move ahead.
- Every relationship has a give and takes avoid getting caught in the nitty-gritty of things and the blame game as both won’t help get things sorted out.
- The drama is only a lesson learn to accept it and understand and move on.
When our expectations are high and we are in the need of getting some kind of acknowledgement it’s nothing but natural to plunge right into the centre of the heaven whole saga that’s taking place. Take a moment and think before you take a step or a plunge is that what you want? Normally when we take a moment to decide naturally we move away from unwanted situations and circumstances of life.
The simple lessons that we fail to understand are the most important life lessons.
Do your bit and walk away without getting stuck in the drama of things that are unfolding.
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In Gratitude to Divine
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Samskara Healing
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