NEVER SAY NEVER
Out of anger and anxiety, we may react to certain situations without giving it a certain thought or may be thinking this is it. I smile when I hear people say this is it I will never speak to this person again.
The minute we say that the universe does make a note of it and we are presented with a situation where we need to meet or acknowledge the person and within us comes the internal conflicts which we will not be able to stop. As we have been so rigid with our own thoughts cause we are hurt or upset.
We then may at times try to push our conflict away saying it’s okay or to worry about it and then saying let’s just forgive and move on. Here comes the first mistake, have you really forgiven?
If the answer is yes,
Do make a note and when you face the same situation again ask yourself this question. Certain relationships come back time and again into our life is cause we haven’t learned our mistakes and we are actually rebounding and going about doing all the blame games.
It’s understandable that you may not be wrong, well but you did give the power to the other person to react or say something which was not needed. So then why? Why say you are not wrong?
No matter what one says with facts like “I am ready to face whatever comes my way”. In reality, it always shakes the person as one can never say I am ready for it. As we never are ready for it. The irony of life that “never happens” can be pretty tricky especially now when a fact is placed like this in a sentence. It brings a different outlook on the entire situation.
But incase your answer is No ( you have been unable to forgive)
Then it’s time to actually start looking at the reasons and triggers and learn the lessons that are being repeated to you time and again. As I stated earlier we can never be sure what to expect or not expect in life. The best way to move forward is by acceptance and bringing in forgiveness.
Sometimes when we use words such as never we tend to actually bring that on to us in reality or yes we are put into situations and circumstances that can be a trigger for a windfall of events. One may not be ready to face it or accept it in life.
Usually, when I hear people say never, I smile to myself as I have seen how things have taken a turn. At times I nudge people to rephrase their sentences as it can become a block and we may carry it along for lifetimes too.
The blocks that we create with the word Never are :-
> I/you Never have money for anything
>You are never on time
>You never stick to your commitment
>I am never going there
>I am never going to talk to that person
>I am never happy in life
>I am never successful
>I never get acknowledged
>I can never understand you
>Never trust anyone
>Never in my life had I had to face this
Life is all about witnessing and experiencing it, can you see with certain statements how we can weave some vicious web around us which would make it difficult to break out of it.
Some of these statements either they become blocks or energy hurdles for us as we keep repeating these statements and hitting roadblocks. The more roadblocks we hit the more we repeat these statements which become a pattern for us. Now here is a wonderful statement “ Which we will never break “.
These kinds of tricky statements are the ones wherein we need to be mindful and change them for bringing about a change to oneself. When we make these statements our beliefs we will be repeating them until we start to believe in them and these statements become us and we start to live them knowingly or unknowingly.
The point here is are you actually ready to receive the lessons and move on without using the word Never. This is tricky as this is used in many situations and circumstances. So one needs to be mindful of using this phrase without making it a block or bringing it into various statements.
Statements like :-
>One can never know what will happen next
>You never know what’s waiting for you round the bend
>You can never be sure if tomorrow
>We will never know the truth
>We never know the turn of events
By being mindful these statements can be turned around to a more positive statement or like an affirmative statement
>I am open to lessons that are coming my way as I am being made into a better human being.
>Challenges bring about inner strength and courage for us to experience life.
>I am happy to live life at the moment and enjoy the experiences
>Truth of life is living and experiencing it
>Whatever is meant to be one should be open to accepting what’s been told.
We can never be sure where we will be taken to experience certain things in life so stating a statement never would really not help us in any way as we need to acknowledge and move on.
Living and loving life for the moment and being grateful is the best way to experience life.
Lessons are imparted as we wish to experience and learn certain values.
Life is not always about saying “NEVER”, it’s about living in the moment and treasuring it.
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