Respecting space and time!
Respecting space and time!
This is something that many times it’s taken for granted. The point is at times taking things for granted or just being callous about certain circumstances or situations for various reasons. Can lead to becoming one of the major triggers for bitterness in relationships and bringing major drifts. This could in turn bring about changes when one can’t be seen respecting or even acknowledging the other person’s space or time.
No matter what there can be many reasons why certain things can’t be compiled or adhered to. No matter what, there is an explanation which must be given and it has to be clear one. Not to give excuses and lame stories to get out without being questioned or looked at with a doubt.
The pivot to any kind of relationship is the need to have the right balance and look for strength. When the pivot itself is not right or shaking the rippled effect can be chaotic. The rippled effect can be felt far and wide not just in one relationship. But with all those who are connected with the same relationship. So for eg:-if there is a major difference and issue between a parent and child. The effect can be felt by all family members, through thoughts, and acts will clearly show and express the stress of the relationship.
As stated earlier when things are taken for granted and not taken seriously it does clearly show your thought process and how much you respect your own time and space. I am sure many of you must be wondering what am I saying? Yes it’s true! We reflect our thoughts and acts with how others perceive us or the need to be perceived in a particular manner.
Challenges and blocks come, but as it’s told in our Vedic scriptures it’s about choosing what your feel is right and your duty that’s important and that’s what is called dharma. But in the process of being confused and lost can at times make one procrastinate. The biggest draw back with procrastination is at times we may miss the right opportunity or doors may close before we take a decision.
Falling into the space of not being bothered and going about with a callous attitude takes one nowhere. Everything and every move is always observed and the perceptions are built accordingly. The smallest of details be it from the way you keep your surroundings, to how you respect yourself is clearly evident with the way everything is presented.
To respect someone else space and time one should first learn to respect one’s own space and time. Only when we value our own space and time can we accept others to value the same. The same goes to when only we value our time and space and we know the importance of it. It becomes easy to use the same understanding for others.
Another important point here is when we don’t take things seriously be it time or space. It is reflected onto us showing us being very scattered and confused with our priorities of life. Time is like flowing water and what time is gone by will never return so it should be valued and respected. The same goes for the concept of space, things need to be set and defined and this brings the required changes.
Some simple steps that one can imbibe:-
- Set a routine and have a calendar to keep space for failures and lapses at times. Don’t make it a tight packed schedule that you can’t breathe.
- It’s okay at times if there is a setback or delay but a valid explanation is needed. Not lame excuses like traffic jams or maid have not turned up. These are things that is always there it’s working with these in mind.
- A contingency plan is much needed and the same must be explained as soon as possible. Express your setbacks and also be mindful of being apologetic keeping in mind someone has cleared space and time for you.
- Speak the truth no matter how harsh or bitter it may be. Don’t try to sugarcoat things as it may look even more bad than what it actually is.
- Communication is much needed and being vocal with your thoughts and setbacks should be done.
- Priorities are to be set, and if you feel certain things are irrelevant or not important it’s better to than not commit to anything but let them know that you will get back.
- Be assertive about your time and space and make it clear that you value it in whichever way it’s needed.
- When things are organized and done meticulously there is lesser scope for flaws or setbacks as everything is going as a schedule.
When space and time is respected and acknowledged it becomes easier to balance relationships and take things smoothly. Working on setting boundaries and time management can be of use. Look at the draw backs and look at ways to work things for everything to ease.
Respecting space and time brings a major change into every relationship.
Time and space should never be taken for granted as we don’t know what is tomorrow.
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