The Significance of Surrendering!
I am sure many of you must be thinking of the statement of letting go and surrender. Wondering why is this often stated and is that of any implication here. Yes it is of importance and one should understand and know that why and when to surrender.
Normally, when things go against your like or your will there be a lot of internal as well as external conflicts. These conflicts lead to a lot of disharmony and stress in any kind of relationships as there is no mutual understanding or agreement on a certain turn of events.
Now when one is being mindful and understands that you can only control your thoughts or acts not the other person’s it would be way easier to deal with the whole drama that is unfolding and going against our thoughts or beliefs.
The stir can happen for various reasons
- Internal Stimuli
- External Stimuli
- Limiting beliefs
- Values built on certain perceptions
- Repeated failures
- Emotional instability
- Trust issues
- Controlling issues
There can be many reasons which would put one on a slide of topsy-turvy events which is going against everything we believe in and trust in.
This is when one needs to be mindful to be able to surrender and step aside as things are not going as per your wish.
The next question would be how can we do that?
- Understand the situation and try to get a bird’s eye view or think of the other person’s thought process and see what’s there opinions too.
- Do not jump to conclusions or be hasty about any decisions. It’s about being practical and rational with your thoughts and acts.
- Respect the other person’s/ people thoughts and beliefs too. Don’t just get stuck in your thoughts and feelings.
- Acknowledging your feelings and flow of emotions are much needed and will help you understand what exactly is happening.
- Be vocal with your thoughts and feelings as keeping the communication open and easy, as you try to deal with the turn of events.
- Understand that everything can’t be in your control and you need to let go at times and accept how things happen.
- Introspect which is an important tool to use for every kind of situation, being reasonable and not a self-critic.
- Set your boundaries and know that you need to be in a safe space. That way it’s easy to surrender when needed.
To surrender one needs to actually move into a zone of becoming a witness to what’s unfolding in ones life and step aside to let Nature/ divine step in to do what’s best for your highest good.
Well that does look easy.. doesn’t it ?
But yet why can’t we allow things to happen or just surrender to the situation. That’s cause there is huge resistance stemming from the point of being
- Vulnerable
- Uncertainties
- Deep rooted fears
- Jealousy
- Control issues
- Humiliation
- Limiting Beliefs
Now when we understand the essence and just allow yourself to accept the situation no matter how much it is against your wish and step aside you will be surprised to see the turn of events. I have enough and more examples where I have suggested this to my students and clients and have got calls saying, you were right.
The minute we surrendered and stepped aside things took a turn and also for the better. I understand it’s easier said than done but when you build trust in the process and take a decision to surrender and step aside the magic that unfolds is beautiful.
Trust
Surrender
Let go
Watch the magic unfold
When we surrender at the feet of the divine the plan unfolds for our highest good.
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🌺Palash 🌺
In Gratitude to Divine
Spiritual Healer
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