WHAT DO WE DO WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH!!
Don’t we all face such issues all the time and often go through tough spots and wish to withdraw or walk out saying I can’t take this anymore, and I need a breather or I need space. I wish to move on as I can’t take this anymore and I don’t wish to suffer.
When we are time and again put into certain situations that become patterns we face the resistance within us and are not ready to let go or move on. We keep on weaving our vicious webs in the process of getting ourselves sucked into it all the more and are just unable to understand or escape the crutches of faith.
Through all the darkness all we keep doing it with our flow of negative thoughts keep on repeating the same hurdles and mistakes that have occurred and feeding unwanted energies which will only make it even more difficult and painful for the person.
Our body does not think on its own, but reacts to every memory churned by our brain and believes to be experiencing the same things again and reacts accordingly. This is where the core issue lies and the triggers through which things get churned.
Patterns once formed are difficult to break and our repeatedly stating the same thing as an affirmation brings about the same and manifests the same aspects time and again. This leads us to believe that it is natural and we got to just accept what we are manifesting.
For example:-
If we say a statement like
I can’t take it anymore!
Enough of this!
Why am I treated this way?
I am the one getting unfair or bitter treatment
So on these statements when we believe and bring them into the system we just start to accept things as they are and go with life. Being oblivious to the fact that we are in denial or in a downward spiral of life.
There is no realization of the facts or the truth that is actually there and that is we are manifesting this on to ourselves with our own thoughts and acts. The universe dishes out exactly what we believe in and ask. No matter how many times I write about this it’s never enough.
When the going gets tough it’s natural for us to lift our hands and say it’s enough I can’t take it anymore. We look for a way out or want an excuse to make an escape and move away without even a second thought. There can be many reasons for such thoughts and fearful acts.
The more we try to escape the more does the pain follow us and keeps on manifesting in our space. The best thing to do is understand and acknowledge your problems. This will help us be in a mindful state to help withdraw or release what is not needed.
At times just changing our thought process will actually bring a beautiful change into our lives. It is as easy and simple as that, just that we are not prepared to explore or understand this simple fact. Our own beliefs and perceptions really can manifest things and when it is pointed out one will never be ready to understand or accept it.
Now a simple question to ask oneself would be
Am I really going to exit or am I going to work on myself to handle this better?
This would bring about a natural flow of thoughts that would help one introspect and understand the facts of life. Through that, we can actually start moving ahead taking a decision.
Some other steps would be:-
- Build on your support system or look for support groups.
- Use some positive affirmations and work on them.
- Regular decluttering will be useful
- Try to keep and stay in a positive environment
- Now your limitations and work on them
- Practice forgiveness and work on letting go daily
- Don’t be critical of self or harsh on self
- Focus on what you can control and know certain external situations are out of your control
- A gratitude journal takes you a long way
- Get creative and work on moving forward
When going gets tough, be assured the destination will be even more beautiful.
The choice is ours whether we choose an easy path or not.
Get in touch with Samskara Healing incase you feel you need to clarify or get guidance for an issue or for a support session.
🌺Palash 🌺
Spiritual Healer @samskarahealing
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