WHAT FOR YOU??
Wow, this statement really gets to me, not sure if it does create a similar feeling within you. I don’t understand this statement and as it has been coming up often in a lot of different ways to me I realized that I have to write about the same.
Though again I sat with procrastination thinking, why would anyone want to read about something like “WHAT FOR YOU?”.
Anyways pushed my resistance and dealt with my procrastination accepting that it does irk me when it’s used so let me try to see how it effects others.
My first question in Introspection is why would someone actually say this statement?
It took me sometime to analyze this from every angle as to why would such a crude and mean statement be used without even giving a blink of an eye.
What can the reasons be??
Unhappiness
Frustration
Jealousy
Insecurities
Hatred
These were some emotions which just came like titles flashing for some movies, and I just kept putting them down, wow aren’t these some heavy emotions to be dealing with.
Is it our own incapabilities put on others projecting our emotions with a statement like this. Does anyone even take moment to blink their eye and think if I say this what if I hurt the person or maybe I can can actually be casting a negative eye on them.
No we never think, we are ready to say anything and everything that comes to us especially for such things without a second thought. There thought or emotions means nothing to us. We just want to lash out and hurt cause we are upset or hurt. Sometimes we just wish to me mean and nasty, with your words cause of our reasons like, weakness or negative thoughts.
We are operating from a point of frustration and insecurities where, on the other side of the mountain looks greener. We are unable to understand the pain the situation the person is in, without any such thoughts we can throw such statements.
The impact of such a statement is huge, we can put the other person through a lot of
discomfort and a difficult situation.
No matter how well one is doing in life or not, each person has their share of suffering and pain. Out of the blue bringing out such statements could distance a person from us. Along with that they can pick up certain emotions like jealousy or hatred easily. This would lead them to start distancing themselves.
Naturally one moves away from such negative environment where there is toxicity and feeling unloved or looked upon with a critical eye . Life has its own plan for us as teacher we need to understand and respect it. Wallowing in ones own self pity is not a reason for any such things so please do avoid bringing out such statements.
In the journey of life, our issues are not dished out to us, with the statements like “WHAT FOR YOU?” each one comes with their own soul contracts and stage is set for enactments as we have asked for to gain life experiences.
The tougher the path, the lessons bring out beautiful experiences which helps the soul move on with its onward journey. So instead of questioning oneself or the other person. We rather use our energy in a constructive way to make the most of our own journey and experiences of life.
This can only be achieved when we understand the simple law of the universe and the soul contracts that we make. Oh this with our words and statements we create blocks or choose a tough path by repeating certain strong statements.
This can get tricky and then we unknowingly have created a vicious web of blocks and suffering and patterns are created through the set conditioned thought processes. Words once spoken can never be taken back. We may not mean at times to hurt or convey something negative. It just happens to sound like that, which would make it difficult for everyone.
It’s worth every penny to slow down and be careful with our words that we express. As once spoken words can never be taken back.
Don’t ask What for you? Your rather as what’s it to me? Cause it is really nothing to you, if you do ask a statement like “ What for you? Then it clearly shows the other person is making you insecure and that’s causing a lot of discomfort. Time to change your thinking!!!
The other side of the mountain is always greener, so stop trying to feel other people’s life is better than your life.
Reach out to Samskara Healing if you have an issue or trouble to let go for guidance, support or a session.
🌺Palash 🌺
Spiritual Healer @samskarahealing
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