WHAT STOPS US FROM COMMITTING?
This is something that I often ask my self, when I see the lack commitment. The excuses are many one can have, but the lack of commitment is beyond expectations.
Why does one even slip into such a state of
mind?
Is it cause of our environment or has it got to do with our beliefs or conditioning.
Makes one truly wonder and this one question always puzzles me. As to what stops one from committing to anything. I often ask fellow healers too and we get into long discussions as we often see this as major issue.
I keep reflecting back into my own state of mind and ask myself what is blocking me from actually receiving commitments. Though I keep digging deep and trying to go deeper and deeper to know myself better. This is one question I am a unable to get a perfect answer.
I put this question to my guides yesterday, and I was met with silence which was a little uncomfortable for me.
Then like a movie screen coming alive, in front of my mind I see FREE WILL written in bold.
I was like ofcourse it is the free will, I thanked my guides and sat back to write. My first thought being wow free will does play havoc in our life in many ways. If the will is used the right way then it is going to be for better or vice versa.
When free will comes in our way won’t this start becoming a big nuisance as one won’t be able to step out of the so called comfort space. Even someone comes to help you you are just not ready to even acknowledge. Instead of reaching your hand out for help you snap and shut the door.
After that wallowing yourself in self pity and cribbing will be of no real consequences to you. As there is only one block between you and your commitment and that block is
Now when you are not ready to take out time to prioritize yourself. The universe too won’t take you seriously. Is this a kind of threat, No it’s not. It’s the simple law of the universe which applies
What you sow is what you reap!
So when you tell the universe through your thoughts
I don’t have the time
I am busy
Not interested
I have too much work I can’t breathe
Then the universe takes these sentences seriously and keeps sending back what you are asking for which is:-
You can never take time out for anything
No matter what you will be busy ( irreverent with what)
Situations keep cropping up which would make you feel suffocated.
There is only one way here, that is our thinking. When we start to work on our beliefs and conditioning we can start to eradicate certain situations out of our life.
For eg:- I have been wanting to read a book for sometime now it has been placed by my bedside and I keep telling myself I need to read. I am unable to bring myself to read. What am I saying
I just don’t have the time
Between my meditation classes and healing sessions I just don’t have time
I need to take time out
I have now made a kind of schedule which is pretty flexible and I have taken time out to read and also decided that I have to put a time for when people can actually reach out to me. This was a stern step for me to take. It was much needed as I have to prioritize myself too. Here my commitment was towards the book. So when I have decided to read the book it’s about time to read the book.
Similarly I rarely commit to any workshops and when I do, I do take the effort of responding to my teachers or mentors as they are taking the time out to guide me or teach me something. I cannot tell them I don’t have the time to read or go silent on them. I have chosen to go to them as I need to learn something or get healed. When we commit to someone and the other person reciprocates the same back to you.
One should honor your own commitment in the first place. Keeping in mind we have the free will at play, it’s to be honored and you have the right to say yes or a no. But just not committing to either clearly shows how the blocks are there. This can be argued on and justified, that itself shows the point of denial when we refuse to even see what’s right or wrong.
I personally had a lot of blocks in committing myself to anything. The reasons would vary from
No maids to my kids. I would keep pulling anything and everything under the roof of my home as an excuse for not doing something. My resistance was a big challenge and my problems that came my way where equally a challenge.
When I was on the point of drowning I saw a rescue boat come my way ( who happens to be my teacher and mentor) all she did is showed her hand and I jumped into the boat. The journey after that one commitment I took has been exponential as i I have never looked back.
All it’s takes from you is just a nod or yes, the universe roles the red carpet with opportunities flowing towards you. I have personally seen this in my students as they commit themselves to their soul calling I have heard many of them say it’s unbelievable how things happen. How everything just falls in place.
That’s beauty of committing, as this commitment is to no one else but yourself.
So what’s stopping you from committing to your own soul calling??
Listen to your nudges this is your soul calling for you to accept and commit towards your true self.
Life is teaches us ways to show us the importance of commitment.
Our commitment is not to anyone else but our higher self which we should honor.
Reach out to Samskara Healing if you have an issue or trouble to let go for guidance, support, or a session.
🌺Palash 🌺
Spiritual Healer @samskarahealing
Priestess|Shaman |Karunaki master
Reiki Master|Sacred symbols Master
Light Body Practioner|Meditation Facilitator
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