Why can’t things happen the way we want it??
Well, that sentence would have stopped you in your tracks for a fraction of a second for sure. Each and everyone of us have dreams. Some dreams are very big and it takes time to achieve and some are small dreams that at times can be easily achieved or chances are there that it can get blocked due to the simple facts of limiting beliefs.
As a new year begins there is so many thoughts on
- What all to do
- Where to visit
- Things to buy
- Things to do
Along with these, there are new year resolutions and lists of getting things to be done. A bucket list of places to visit, and a list of certain expensive things to buy. But at times situation and circumstances are such that one can be left in the lurch and what we dream or wish to achieve is incomplete or it takes a course and gives us something we are not prepared for or want in our life.
Times like this leads to disappointments and frustration which can be in the hilt of an unfolding rigmarole of the emotional charade. This could lead us to stop thinking or our logical mind switches into flight or fight mode and we are looking at ways to react and not act on these expectations.
These reactions would just take us in a downward spiral to the rock bottom of going through the jargon of emotional upheaval. Though life has its ways of dishing things to us we are still in the strong belief that we can control everything in life. In reality we can’t control anything and it’s not easy to control these things as it’s not in our hands.
Let’s just take the example of what we all went through during the onset of covid and lockdown. What was a comfortable and easy life suddenly turned topsy turvy and all plans for the year 2020 was shelved and put into cold storage with the dates of indefinite time written on it. There was a lot of resistance and uncertainties flying about and insecurities brought everything to a shaky situation.
The situation was just not in any ones controls and many didn’t have a contingency plan in place. This was a complete dark face for everyone with fear lurking about the uncertainties of life and work. Nothing was comfortable for one to even think of or want to accept it.
Such times a beautiful lesson to value and understand is nothing goes as per plan. As there is a master planner out there and he or she have our highest interest in their mind and always work towards getting the best for us. We on the other hand get stuck and not ready to understand or realize this simple thing of life.
The various issues and blocks could at times be for our highest good though at the moment in the state of being vulnerable and going through the tough phase one will not be able to decipher or understand this situation.
Next time when things don’t go as per plan and there is a slight change or maybe things are not happening as you want allow yourself to surrender and let the universe do things rightfully for you. That way you are stepping out and also allowing the rightful energy to flow through for your highest good.
When I say for your highest good, remember that at times things may happen as how you want and at times it may not unfold as per your wish. Nevertheless always treasure it and value it as it’s really important and hold onto the explicit teachings that comes along without any hiccups or questions.
How can we be ready when things don’t do as per our wish?
- The first and most important thing is to avoid resistance and learn to accept the dilemma or crisis no matter how tough it can be.
- Comprehend there is no option of opting out or trying to excuse yourself when put in a tight spot with certain situations.
- Look at and try to take in the important lessons that’s coming your way. The tougher the situation the tougher is the lesson.
- Take time or even take support to understand what exactly is happening to you and see how you wish to work things out.
- Every situation has an exit point at times we can get so caught in the entire drama that we fail to see the exit point or even try to get out.
- Cribbing and nagging are going to get you nowhere so look at ways where you can happily smile and accept the lessons of life that come your way.
- Look at keeping a contingency plan and that helps out. If plan A can’t happen let’s looks the next best thing plan B if not plan C.
- The entire point is that you don’t get caught in whirlpool of being stuck in the center of the web and slipping into denial. You have to let things flow naturally and that’s the simplest and easiest thing to do. Though it’s toughest thing for many to understand and let go.
- Let go and allow things to manifest naturally for your highest good that way whatever is best for you will naturally unfold for you.
- Accept failures and blocks these bring beautiful lessons to one to inculcate into our life as we move ahead.
Certain lessons help us to become stronger and more confident. While some lessons teach us ways to let go of fears and accept reality of life. We can run but not hide from the various lessons that’s meant for us. The reason being is we have chosen to have these experiences and witness the unfolding and carry the lessons with us as we move on as a soul.
Dreams are meant to be dreamt and believed in only then will it manifest itself into your reality.
Our limited beliefs at times come in the way of our dreams coming true.
Get in touch with Samskara Healing, if you are looking for a mentor or you need a session of healing and help remove blocks feel free to reach out and book a consultation.
Palash
In Gratitude to Divine
Spiritual Healer
Samskara Healing
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