Why can’t you take out time to do things you love?
Several excuses start pouring in when we have to start taking time out to do certain things we have to do but somewhere within us there is deep resistance for the same. We have a pandora box full of excuses. The box is more like a limitless pit. There is no end to our excuses and trying to reason things out which are not of consequence.
Why do we do this?
- Difficulty to say no.
- Fear of commitment.
- Fear of the unknown.
- Procrastinating.
- Resistance to change.
- Comfortable to be in the back.
- Lacking confidence.
- No proper support or guidance.
- A lot of miscommunication and misinformation.
- Not ready to take things in your hand
- Decision-making skills in chaos.
There can be many reasons but I don’t want to go into that and create more confusion. Let’s look at the simple fact, are reactions and acts.
How can we work on that?
Let’s start with our core issues why do we fear to do things we love? There can be insecurities and of course the point of maybe not wanting to do something and then the only way out is to dish out excuses to get out of that awkward situation.
The important factor is to understand what is
that you want. After which define your boundaries no one can push you for something. As you have been gifted with free will from the supreme energy. So it’s totally up to you, there is no need for explanation or reasoning out the same.
But when we want to do something or yearn to do something it’s time to put your cards on the table and take the plunge. Like eg:- Ask yourself
- Are you ready for this?
- Is this what you want?
- Is this within your budget?
- Do you need to rework your budget as it’s a little expensive?
- Can I work out the time for this?
- Am I seeking acknowledgment or approval?
- Is this hampering my goals or helping me achieve them.
- Am I being reasonable with self?
So like this when we ask yourself significant questions the answers which are naturally lying within us start materializing and we get clarity and can start taking the path we choose and go about what we wish without any problem or discrepancy with what we choose.
Many times we are so caught in getting approval and trying to do similar things that our circle of friends and colleagues do we lose our own identity and beliefs start creating inner conflicts for us. This is chaotic and leads to a myriad flow of emotions we don’t wish to acknowledge and suppress. In turn, this leads to a whole lot of other issues about our emotional and physical well being.
The simple situation can be turned into mountains of hurdles and problems. The fact is as simple as if you wish to do something go for it and do it. In case money comes in the way set intentions to allow the flow of money and have the ability to do whatever you wish to do.
When we don’t prioritize ourselves we have money for everything else including splurging on unwanted and wasteful things.
Please don’t take this the wrong way, we just divert our mind and spend money on unrelated things and have our explanations for the same ready. This usually happens at a subconscious level and we never understand why we resist or go through a block.
Seasons change weather changes and we change too with time. Embrace the change and love yourself for who you are.
On the journey of life, we face various blocks and that on a way helps in changing our course of life.
Get in touch with Samskara Healing in case you feel you need to clarify or get guidance for an issue or a support session.
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